I was going to mention caution when we were talking b4, but I just assumed it would go without saying, but its good Biggabertha vocalised (well, typed) it...
interesting you opted out of looking for males, its good that you got that bit of knowledge before even going on a date!, another curve maybe!?.. ... tbh I don't blame you, especially with online stuff...
(that's not to put you off, but you know what I mean - i.e the stuff about being careful applies much more, I would think, when meeting males)
anyway, good luck