BananaKing

They don't attract me. See what pains me is that the relationship was perfect before things went sexual. I guess its true when they say sex complicates things. When she kept trying to get me to have sex in the car I actually had to yell at her telling her that I don't do that. I don't wish to offend anyone who does highly regard sex in their car, but to me that's very trashy and ghetto and I don't want to do things that way. Its got to be special and meaningful to me, real passion behind the action you know? Sex in a car...theres no passion behind that...its just activity in an uncomfortable place. Before the whole cheating thing, that was a major hole in our relationship...she said, everyone has sex in their car. I said, well I don't and I don't want to be like everyone else. If we're like everyone else, then how is our relationship special?

She once told me that all her friends cheat. She called me up one night and wanted me to drive out to her place, little over 20miles away, and have sex in my car. When I said no out of fear of indecent exposure and because that feels trashy to me, she got angry. I shouldve seen it coming really, the week before we split, we had a whole mess of problems

Ugh lawyer talk I think I get it, you're saying its her fault not the person she cheated on me with

I always remember what Sylvester Stallone said in Rocky Balboa, "It ain't about how hard you hit, its about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward." There's a good point there and I try and live my life that way. When the world shoves, you can either sit on the ground moping or shove back

Larz don't think I forgot you asked me to do the same picture! I have it done as I like it so let me know if you like it

Don't worry guys, I'm fine and those recipes were a nice gesture but they're all just chocolate stuff. Not hugely appetising

She liked the attention from multiple guys, she sort of thrived on it. She got the sexual attention from another man, and the loving attention from me. She says she was sorry but whether she was sincere or not, cheating is cheating and I won't stand for it. If someone is going to cheat on me after all the love and attention I give them, then why would I continue anything with that person? The post was short cause I was hurting and didn't want to talk about it. I'm getting over it. I didn't go to class this morning so I could clear my head at home. She sent me texts asking if we could still be friends but I said no. I just want to move on, find someone else and leave it behind me. I hate lamenting on heartbreak cause it depresses me. I want to end this relationship without falling into a depression.

See we made the mistake of planning out having sex instead of letting it be spontaneous. We did it, but the days leading up to it and after, we were fighting which we didn't do up to that point. After 3 days after sex I flat out asked her whats wrong and she admitted she had cheated on me. After hearing that I immediately ended the relationship and while I wish it didn't have to end...I'm not letting that slide. I wasn't sad or cried or anything, I was happy...so I'm getting right back on that horse and getting back into the game

So guys...*sigh* anyone want to guess whats up?....no? Alright I'll just be out with it: I was cheated on...and its over with Kat...ehhhh, I could sound all emo and depressed but really I'm glad. Things were rocky for the last few days with Kat and I knew something was up. Only thing I can do is move on

Went shopping with Kat today and there's love in the air. I bought her a dress, a pair of earings, and a necklace for her birthday today. I'm seeing her sunday where we'll have some more alone time and then monday its a whole day together at Universal Islands of Adventure Ah I love not being single [emote=onion]hearts[/emote]

Well my girl didn't do anything, it was her friend. Her friend cheated on her boyfriend when he went away to basic training. Its one of those human instincts that when you're told to do something, you try and do the opposite. Like when you're told not to look in the box, the very fact that you are restricted to looking inside the box makes you want to look into it even more thus you're more likely to try and open it

Well my girl doesn't want me to say anything because she wasn't even supposed to tell me. Oh wells, its her birthday tomorrow so im focusing on that

He's trying too hard to do it, I've told him he's wasting his time and he's not fooling anyone, but just keeps at it like its job or something. Honestly you'd think a college grad would have far better things to do than heckle a 21yr old man about his girlfriend Oh wells, I'm not letting him ruin my time. Got a double date on friday but she's not too happy about it actually. One of her friends wants Kat to meet her boyfriend before he goes off to the armed services and she would like to meet me, so she planned a double date. You know, dinner and movie the typical thing date thing. What bothers me and Kat though is her friend cheated on her boyfriend when he went for basic training. Her excuse was, "What I supposed to do, wait for him?!" Yeah you're really showing how much you care for your man when you have a one-night stand with some guy at a club and you weren't drunk. What Kat hates is that she's going to be all lovey-dovey over her boyfriend even though she cheated on him. Naturally she asks we don't inform the guy about this but we don't want to take part in this lie. Its looking like we're going to go on this double date but if her boyfriend leaves to go to the bathroom or whatever that night, I am going to say something about her lying because I don't condone this at all.

I disagree dude, I don't think you can be too nice. You can be a pushover, but you can't be too nice. There's nothing wrong with holding onto your morals because thats what I do. Now if its a movie you've never seen before then I can understand your curiosity. If the movie is crap, then I say have fun In my case, both were movies I hadn't seen before but the 1st on was utter garbage. The second one Scott Pilgrim vs the World was really good so we didn't kiss lips until the movie was over. I did kiss her cheeks a bunch during the movie but you get it. Just finished another date with Kat. We met for lunch and went into every store in a big shopping center. I kept hugging her in the stores and she found it so funny cause she couldn't move There is a problem though, there's some guy that she must've talked to at some point before me who's obsessed with Kat. He demands that she is his girlfriend despite the fact he disgusts her. He's trying to bother me about it a lot on facebook but...we've both blocked him on facebook and he removed himself from our block lists. He also logged into Kat's account without her permission and changed her password without her knowing. Any of you guys know how I can get in touch with facebook support so they can take action? I've already warned him I'd contact them so now I want them to delete his account

And today we're being girly and going shopping and having lunch together

For our last date we watched Jennifers Body and Scott Pilgrim vs the World...but we didn't watch too much of the movies

No dude, I'm no pimp, I dont have the charisma to pull that off. Pretty much I gave up on the psychologist when she wouldn't give me an answer on how she was planning on trying to make time to see me. I know a lot cause from experience, so later that day I met Kat and hit things off from there. And now its official, we're a couple and I'm DAMN HAPPY!!! [emote=onion]hearts[/emote] [emote=onion]hearts[/emote] [emote=onion]hearts[/emote]

Well basically I met her when she and her sister were touring my school. I started talking to her and she must've liked me because she asked me what I was doing for lunch. So we had lunch together and I asked her out and she said yes. 2 dates later, we've made it official. The BananaKing is now off the market

Well while she's tolerant of my liking for anime, she doesn't like to partake in it, so you probably wont hear from her around here. Well I did technically get my birthday wish this year, got my pretty Jungle Kat Dont worry guys, I wont go all gushy all over the place, just with her You all have no idea how happy I am. See I once went to a therapist about 8yrs ago and he asked me if I was depressed. Out of fear and being stubborn I told him no but I really was. I've always hated being alone and wanted someone that wasn't my family to spend time with, love me, and let me love them. Now I finally have a girl of my own and I think its going to finally make things better in my life

So I've got quite the update for you all tonight. Never thought I'd say this, cue the drum roll: The BananaKing has a BananaQueen. For those who had a stroke just now, I do now have a girlfriend and a cute one at that. She's letting me post just one pic. Her name's Catalina or Kat, I call her my Jungle Kat. [emote=onion]hearts[/emote] Well I guess I can't complain about being single anymore

Already did dude, its currently under fraud investigation. I'm confused on that as well, but somehow this guy managed to get my debit card number and buy stuff using paypal. I gotta wait at least 10business days before I hear any news about this matter.

Well the guy has bad internet so you can't blame him. But hey guess what? Its April Fools day! Wanna guess the prank I recieved today? Some WoW player picked my bank account to purchase $200 worth of gold of off! So now I'm out $200 and the victim of debit card fraud. And you want to know the best thing? Its not a prank at all, seriously...it happened and now I lost $200 and can't eat any food today

Had another date tonight, it ended pretty badly. I did have a my fortune read through tarot cards tonight. Now that was quite interesting

There were tons of girls but I was hanging out with my friend Jen the whole time so i didnt talk to many of them

We had a big fight and its over. Its a shame really, I really did like her