I can't really cover such a massive issue, I can only give my own thoughts of what is in my mind right now. Men scare me. They are generally a lot stronger than me, heavier and also have more aggression and power. What I mean by that is, even if a man was smaller than me, if he came at me, I would still cower. I don't have the necessary aggression to defend myself. maybe aggression isn't the right word. anyhow, the way I see it, if a woman was being sexually provocative, I would find that to be tantalising. but if it were a man, I would find it intimidating.
(yes I like both guys and girls.)
On the other hand, I want to point out that some behaviour by women is totally inappropriate. Miley Cyrus for example, makes me feel physically sick with her behaviour. Nikki Minaj too. Urgh.